Would You Marry Me?
I got a text message several days ago from a female friend. She asked me if I would marry her. It’s quite surprising it made me laugh a little bit. I knew it was not a joke. She was pretty damned serious. But I didn’t see it coming at all.
I know her pretty well. In fact, we had a relationship about couple years ago. It didn’t work out so we called it off. Now she’s been with someone else. From what I heard, it looks like her current relationship has been going without any commitment from her boyfriend about their future. It’s kinda hangin’ there. Perhaps that made her quite upset.
I don’t want to go further into anyone personal life. Actually what more interests me is the fact that she chose to reconsider her past relationship (in this case) with me. I wonder why she didn’t consider first to find a new possible relationship. Is it general tendency for people, that if we have a problem in our relationship we’ll directly look back to the past?
Obviously all of us do have memories including all of our past relationship. Good or bad. Sweet or sour. Romantic or pathetic. We’ve been through those before. Is it knowing well about our past that makes it a much less risky choice than to get a new relationship with “unkown” possibilities? Is it to play safe that really important in this case?
I’m not sure about the tendency between men and women when they’re facing similar dilemma. But I always thought that women are more sentimental than men. So I guess women do look the past more often than men. That includes on how they find the solutions to their current relationship.
But hey I’m just guessing. I’m not really experienced in having so many relationship. So I might be wrong. I would love to hear what’s your take on this 
Buruan gih… nikah. Keburu mejen alatnya…
waduh amzabro parno nih
well, she might be realizing that she don’t know what she has until it’s gone..
*sound rhyme deh*
then trying to look back to the past,
and she found out that you’re the best
but, the big question mark is “would you marry her?”
considering what happened on the past, actually i’m not sure if i’m the best
Hehe about the big question mark, we’ll see 
Btw, reading your comment i remember a song called Don’t Know What You Got. I think it was Cinderella song 
Would you tell me, who is she
hehe nobody from our company and even all mukakuning knows who she is. So it’s no use telling you huehehe
jadi sudah dilamar bidadarinya?
huehehe ngga tau deee. Liat aja n’tar
women…napa sih selalu ngebet banget ama nikah..
*ngacir sebelum dikejar orang sekampung*
hehe kalo mslh ngebet mgkin krn takut ketuaan ya. Yg ngejar org2x dr Kampung Wanita ya
It wasn’t me who sent u sms, right?
…
hehehe as far as I remember it wasn’t coming from abroad In
Memories is just memories, It’s very sweet to remember but dont be trapped in memories just like her. Just find a new path, dont turn around just because memories and do not regret your decision in the past cause you will regret for the second time if you made the same mistake in the present.
I belive in second chance, but that second chance only usefull if you take different way to reach the same target.
I tend to agree with your opinion bro. We’ve tried it once and didn’t work out. You’re right I think. Walking through the same path over and over won’t bring any better than try a new one. Thx for the comment bro
Terus keputusannya gimana nih??..
Menikah enak lo hehe..
hehehe enaknya di bagian mana nih
Would you tell us who is she….
Just catch this or you will regret it..
Eling..eling..siro wis umur piro…
like I said below, nobody from mukakuning environment knows who she is
Hehe emangnya bowla di-catch 
Jangan-jangan ini cuman mancing biar yang ditaksir sekarang buru-buru bilang juga ka ente wakakakaka…
huehehe siapaaaa ittuuuuuuuuhhhhh……………
suit …suit
ehm …ehm…
mas foto cewenya mana mas he he he
biasanya ada foto cewe di posting mas
hehee kalo dia artis mgkin gue pasang fotonya pren. Berhubung dia bukan artis ya harap maklum
beuh dilamar!!!
hueheheeh
woooo….
but confused? 
guessing whether u wanna talk abut nokia cellular’s ads or about sms’s jokes but…… ough! no…
when I read the title: surprised!
i don’t wanna comment, you know the answer much more better than anyone else.
At now, I just guess she has watched mv clips of “Main Hati” and then “Hitamku”. Both from Andra n Backcbone, but after that I still don’t know which mv clips she want to watch, may be Mother, How I are you today. May be yes, may be not, not sure siih….
hehe I like both songs bro. I’m not sure if she does though. Hehehe how come you think about “Mother” song after Andra n Backbone songs
stl gw pikir2, balik lagi. seinget gw nie postingan paling gelok sepanjang sejarah perblogwalkingan gw.
ngalah2in iklan2 nokia. eddyaaan ‘nnaaan!!
sodare2,
gw kasih tau, yg punya blok ini adalah orang yg GWUEEEELLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
huehehehe bisa aja lo pren. Biarin deh pren. Gpp dibilang gwelo, yg penting kan gwelo hihi
payah lu, di aja kawin ga mau. Ntar kalo udah kawin lu pasti nyesel dah, kenapa ga kawin dari dulu2……
kalo ada yang ngelamar lagi bilang2 gua men, lu tolak lagi kagak knapa napa dah…^_^
hayo mau nambah ya. N’tar nyonya baca komen ini bisa ngamuk lho
desperate kali om..
hehe ga tau juga
cieh cieh dilamaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrr!!! huhuhuhu jadi gimana??? loe teriima???? undang undang!!!!!!
ga juga… bukan masalah lebih sensitif sentimentil whatsoever nya cewe… tapi emang tuh di atas juga ada yang bilang… mungkin dia baru sadar sesuatu tentang “loe” yang akhirnya bikin dia memutuskan kembalinya ya padamulah
bukan setelah mati i mean :p
hehe liat aja deh n’tar. Kalo baru nyadarnya belakangan brarti gue ga berkesan di kesempatan pertama yah
Hehe iyah, di paragraf pertama ngomongin mati, tp di paragraf kedua bukan koq Nat 
lama gak maen kesini… ups… ada apa gerangan om? dihinggapi para peri cintrong nih si om…
hehe bisa aja si oom ini. Ga tau juga nih oom
wah CLBK nih ceritanya sekarang. Baru tahu kalo dulu situ pernah fall in love.
apa’an tuh artinya CLBK jek. Celora Bung Karno ya?
Saatnya bertindak, mas…
Hayo….”he-eh” aja, gitu
*bersiap ngibrit*
Women maybe become sentimentil person, but behind it, a lot of love is hiden.
“menggenapkan separuh agama…ayo, mas…Katanya Nikah itu indah lho
” *manas-manasin mas sigit*
he…he…
*langsung ngacir*
hehe wah masak langsung he-eh. Kan kudu diliat dr berbagai segi Put. Ga hanya segitiga ajah
Uda panas nih Put, di warnetnya ga ada AC soalnya 
He..he…
Iya, deh, mas…
Yang lebih tahu khan mas sigit…
Pokoknya Put serahkan saja pada mas sigit
*nah lho kok malah ngelantur, sih he…he…*
Udah..kalo panas…minum teh es aja
hehe iya deh Put. Wah jadi inget segernya teh obeng nih
I sometimes look back
but some other time look forward
if only I was in her situation, I’d rather go find someone new, because I now we couldn’t work it out in the past. what makes you think we will if I give it a try?
it will only be a stupid time wasting.
so… how’s she?
yeah, I agree with you Latree. Sometimes look back is only important to take the lessons from. To experience it again? Not really sure
She’s okay I guess 
Alasan kenapa dia nggak milih u/ngebuka hubungan baru dengan orang yg baru… karna dia nggak mau repot nyari2 cowo lagi, balik lagi ke proses kenalan, getting to know each other… sukur2 klo cocok dan bisa jadian, kalo ga cocok? Cari lagi deh… Klopun udah jadian, dia nggak yakin berapa lama harus punya relationship itu sampai bisa ke tahap marriage? 2 years? 3 years? Oh no, she’s just realized her time is running out, she’s not in her early 20s anymore when she can ganti2 pacar without having to feel any loss at all.
Apalagi loe bilang dia lagi kecewa… kecewa + kesepian + putus asa (berlebihan bgt gw hehe), jadi makin sentimentil deh… terbayang2 lah masa2 indah dengan orang2 lama (loe misalnya)…
In one word = desperate.
Hmmm sedikit menyesalkan knapa harus propose duluan… Im just an old fashioned woman who still thinks that the man should be the one throwing the proposal.
brarti intinya kudu dipertanyakan yah. Apalagi dlm kondisi dia yg lagi upset begitu. Hehe iya Sheilla, bener jg apa yg Sheilla bilang tentang old fashioned. Mgkin krn dulu hubungan kita tergolong deket jdnya lebih blak2xan ngutarainnya
way to go bro
just follow your instinct
it’s all in your head
it’s all in your heart
the past is history
the future is right infront of us
to be explored
to be enjoyed
yup, I agree bro. Past is one of our knowledge to face the future. Thx bro
Hmmm…. pertanyaan sulit. Biasanya adalah co yang nanya itu ke ce. Tapi setelah gue ingat2 lagi, memang di dalam Islam boleh kok ce meminang co menjadi suaminya. Ada riwayat-nya..
Btw, jadi ingat, dulu gue juga pernah ditanya seperti itu….cuman sayang akhirnya rencana hanya tinggal rencana..
Kok bisa cerita hidup kita mirip ya jek ?
huehehe jangan2x ada aura D-113 yg bakal menerjang seluruh penghuninya jek. Brarti gue jg bakal miara sapi donk whahahaha
was it serious?
duh Git, keren banget ya loe pastinya, dilamar cewek hahaha
ho’oh serius. Whahahaha gue yakin bukan krn faktor itu deh
Wih br tau gw Bro, kalo lu udah dilamar…….
Btw dr dulu smp skrg gw gak ngerti Bro cwe2 suka sm lu apanya yak??
wah ga tau jg tuh. Yg pasti bukan krn tampang
Kayaknya tuh ce salah alamat gis p
piss
wakakakaka siyyaaallll lu Sis
what a surprise.. !!! wanna know that girl..
take it bro.. it’s a once in a life time chance..
it won’t come twice..
it kind of weird, yes… that a girl purposed on you..
but it’s not a matter at all.. i guess..
eventhough you’ve never met her actually you once mentioned her name couple years back
Hehehe I need to reconsider, reevalute, and some other re’s that I’m not sure I’m willing to do 